Bz & long week...macam2 happening....ada yang happy ada yang buat kita rasa down...so feeling pun bercampur baur...
Ok...kita cerita yang happy dulu...
Hello BFF....
Baru dapat meet up dengan bff...setelah hampir tiga tahun tak jumpa...waluapun selalu chat kat fb....tapi tak sama kan!
Last week dia called kata she's in town so tanya sama ada I free tak join her and a group of friends for lunch selepas tu diaorang planning nak visit one of our ex-colleague yang sakit di SGH...tapi unfortunately I tak free...weekend pun terpaksa jadi chauffeur hantar budak2 kesana kemari...so lepas tu kita negotiate cari masa yang sesuai...so last2 we agree jumpa for breakfast on Monday morning.
My bff & I dah friends for almost 30 years...masa tu sama2 kerja kat Finance (Bank)..selepas dia kawin dia ikut hubby kerja KL... memang hubby dia orang KL....many years later diaorang pindah ke Jakarta until today...anak2 dah besar ..seorang di US, seorang di Singapore so sekarang dia free... selalu juga ikut hubby travelling....memang best gila...dalam setahun dia leh pergi US, N.Zealand, Singapore dan juga balik Kuching...visit family dia kat sini. Selalunya kalau dia datang Kuching...tak lama...dalam seminggu macam tu ...so I tak berani nak kacau dia sebab dia datang sini nak jumpa family dia especially her mother yang dah tua...so rasa macam nak bestlah curi masa dia...tapi this time round she was here for almost 2 weeks so berani le nak ajak dia keluar.
I pick her up at about 8.30am terus pergi satu cafe untuk breakfast....banyak yang nak catch up...so lepas tu since masih awal lagi kita orang continue lepak kat Starbucks, Jln Song..She's one of the best friend I ever had...in sickness or in health she always there to lend a helping hand or shoulder to lean on...she's always there with advices and lend you her ear in what ever circumstances walaupun kitaorang berlainan bangsa ( tapi sama agama)...she's a chinese... dulu geng kitaorang called us siamess twins mana idaknya.... dimana ada dia mesti ada saya dan sebaliknya.... when she left for KL many, many years ago I memang felt so lost but lama2 tu I got used to it ....well life must go on right.!..but we still keep in touch....
Sembang punya sembang tak sedar jam dah dekat pukul sebelas setengah so terpaksa chao cos I nak hantar anak pegi sekolah...sebelum tu beli nasi bungkus untuk my son... mana sempat nak masak..
Goodbye.....& RIP dear friend (ex-colleague)...
That night...my bff sms me bagitahu yang our ex-colleague (yang di SGH) tu dah meninggal...OMG memang terkejut sangat....tak sangka ...yang I dengar dia kena the big C...yang ni relapse...dua tiga tahun dulu pernah kena tapi she recovered...so memang tak caya she left so soon. Menyesal juga tak sempat melawat dia hari tu.
So the next day we plan to pay our last respect to our dear friend and ex-colleague....met up with a few others... ex-colleagues yang lama tak jumpa pun ada datang that day....kita pergi siang hari...ada lagi satu batch yang pergi waktu malam...mereka berkeja dan tak sempat siang nya.
She's still young...in her early fifties...the kids are in their twenties...semua masih single dan seorang masih di college... Memang sedih .....tapi tuhan lebih sayangkan dia. May God bless her soul.
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